Freedom and Fraternity

Thereโ€™s a lot in this section of Fratelli Tutti that should make us squirm in America. In #103, Pope Francis reminds us that freedom and equality are insufficient without dedication to concrete love of neighbor. Without making a political (he does use that word) priority of taking care of each other, liberty is nothing more than โ€œliving as we will, completely free to choose to whom or what we will belong, or simply to possess or exploit.โ€ Liberty, as God intends it, is directed toward the welfare of the other.

And then, of course, thereโ€™s the excerpt above. What follows it is a reminder that efficiency is often at odds with the common good.

In recent years, Iโ€™ve become deeply convicted about the fundamental flaw in the whole idea of โ€œpulling yourself up by your bootstraps.โ€ #109 addresses this. Plenty of us donโ€™t, in fact, need help from a โ€œproactive state,โ€ because weโ€™ve been born into functional educational systems and families that can get us to the doctor.

We all stand on the backs of our parents, grandparents, teachers and communities. Within our communities, we support each other; this is good. It WORKS. I certainly didnโ€™t need any of those COVID stimulus checks, and how to use them in a way that best served the common good was a matter of no small debate in our household.

But itโ€™s a mistake, and I would argue, contrary to Christian discipleship, to assume that simply because many of us donโ€™t have need for a proactive state means nobody does. Look at the injustices and inequalities that litter Americaโ€™s history:

These are just a few structural realities whose consequences have rippled down through history. If we stand on the shoulders of those who came before us, then some among us are fighting a way, way bigger battle than others.

These are hard realities to accept in a time of such profound division. But the Cross IS hard, and the Holy Spirit gave us a shepherd at this time whoโ€™s calling us to confront the things that make us uncomfortable.

The Meaning of Mercy

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A few years ago, when Pope Francis declared the year of mercy, I spent some significant time pondering this on my personal blog. I’ve fallen off the radar here of late because, as we all either know or need to learn, “balance” means sometimes one thing has to give to make room for another, but eventually it will swing back. My writing life is buried right now under fiction work, with a book releasing in the next few weeks, and I simply haven’t had time to come over here.

So I went back to my personal blog to harvest a few more posts to fill in the gap, and the mercy posts really struck a chord. So here you go.


I once attended a workshop on writing liturgical texts in which the presenter challenged us to take out all the church-y words and see if anything of substance remained.

โ€œMercyโ€ is one of those words. A throwaway word, overused into gibberish. At least, it has been for me. So when I heard about an extraordinary jubilee year of mercy, I went, โ€œMercy? Why mercy? What does that even mean?โ€

It was that last question that turned out to be the most important. The problem of this simple, hackneyed word has been gnawing at me until Iโ€™ve realized that prising apart its significance for meโ€”both as a recipient and as a giverโ€”is meant to shape the coming year.

I have always viewed mercy as synonymous with forgiveness. The mind, hearing โ€œmercy,โ€ goes straight to sin and unworthiness: Iโ€™m a pathetic, undeserving wretch whose sins have been forgiven despite my general loser-li-ness. (I can coin words late at night with the best of them.)

The idea of confronting our own brokenness is really important, especially in these days of โ€œwhatโ€™s right for you may not be right for me.โ€ Built into our identity as modern men and women is a deeply-held resistance to admitting that we treat ourselves, our fellow human beings, and our world with careless disregard for our/their/its innate dignity. Mercy speaks to the humility of admitting we do crappy things sometimes. It speaks to the recognition that we deserve just consequences for our actions and instead weโ€™re blessedโ€”in fact, showeredโ€”no, delugedโ€”with goodness. Goodness we usually fail to recognize, because weโ€™re too busy asking for more, more, more.

But if thatโ€™s all there is to the word โ€œmercy,โ€ then whatโ€™s up with those โ€œcorporal and spiritual worksโ€? How do they fit into all this? What do they have to do with undeserved forgiveness?

Iโ€™m not the only person wrestling with this question. Iโ€™ve been reading anything I come across on the blogosphere, and this single quote is the one that caught me:

โ€œMercy is being willing to enter into the chaos of another.โ€

I thought, Yes! Thatโ€™s it! I understand that!

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Itโ€™s far easier to pass judgment on the guy on the street corner begging for money. To say, โ€œHe doesnโ€™t really need it, heโ€™s trying to take advantage of peopleโ€™s gullibility.โ€ But mercy says, โ€œOkay, I will enter into his chaos by contemplating the decades of days and hours and influences I canโ€™t possibly know, the countless steps that brought him to this particular intersection on this particular day, and pry my brain open to admit that I simply cannot know whether he is or is not truly in need, and as such I am compelled, by virtue of his dignity as a human being, to give him the benefit of the doubtโ€ฆand help him.โ€

Mercy.

Itโ€™s far easier to cling to the distance separating us from the chaos in the Middle Eastโ€“to say, โ€œWe canโ€™t possibly ensure that Those People are not terrorists; therefore it is only prudent to keep Them all out and send our riches Over There so Someone Else can take care of Them.โ€ But surely Iโ€™m not the only one whose conscience whispers, If not us, who? Where is there a place of refuge for so many? Mercy responds to worldly prudence with a call to dismantle the geographical wall weโ€™ve been hiding behind for two centuries and enter into the chaos that the rest of the world already knows so well.

Mercy.

Iโ€™m finding that mercy, far from being meaningless, is an enormous, life-altering word. Terrifying, too, because it shoves me out of my safe, familiar, comfortable world full of safe, familiar, comfortable platitudes. To live mercy is to enter into the chaos of families shattered by abuse. To enter into the existence of stomach-turning poverty that, if viewed head-on, would force meโ€“even chintzy, never-spend-a-dime-if-you-can-make-do-with-a-penny meโ€“to confront my own excesses and make changes I donโ€™t want to make.

Mercy, I am beginning to realize, is a shortcut to a darned uncomfortable conscience.

The First Step

This is part of the conclusion of Pope Francis’ reflections on the Good Samaritan. I find that it’s easy for these parables and teachings to become trite by repetition. It’s not a fault of the story, it’s a fault of human nature: we start tuning out b/c hey, we already know this story. I did a presentation on this parable a year or two ago, and reflecting on it anew really changed my relationship with it. This reflection does the same thing–renews and adds insight to something I’ve known for a long time.

Pope Francis spent this reflection pointing out that this parable is about individuals, but it’s also about groups of people. That it applies in person-to-person situations close to home, but also in communities and nations and the world. And there’s no neutral in this story: at each level, you’re either a victim, a passerby, or a person who undertakes the uncomfortable work of engaging. Most of us end up being passers-by, but we don’t want to admit it, and so we come up with all kinds of excuses. Hence, the bickering over policy that has caused the Church to divide along “abortion” and “everything else.” I see this as a call to recognize that those entrenched philosophies are themselves the problem. A sin.

I’m not sure how to change myself. I still want to point everything I read at others. That’s my sin. And so I begin simply by admitting it. Change my heart, O God.

This quote is me

I’ve been wrestling painfully lately with what it means to love people with whom there seems to be so little common ground. People who believe and do and say things I find so horribly contrary to my faith and world view. A friend told me that Fratelli Tutti‘s third chapter addresses that.

But first I had to read chapter two–a reflection on the parable of the Good Samaritan.

Of all the quotes that jumped out at me in that section (there were many!), I picked this one to share, because this is the truth that has twinged my own conscience in recent years. I drifted very comfortably in a black-and-white view of the world for years, until it impacted me directly when I was given the gift of a child with a developmental disability. This quote was me. And my spiritual journey now is deeply formed by wondering if, in fact, this quote still is me, and I just don’t know it.

The more I interact with Pope Francis’ writings, the more in awe I am, the more grateful that the Spirit gave us this man to lead us during this particular moment in history. And once again, I beg everyone: READ THIS ENCYCLICAL.

“How Liberalism Fails the Church,” from the late Cardinal George

I realized several hours too late that the post I referred to in Wednesdayโ€™s reflection was never published at all, because I opted to honor MLK Jr. Day instead.

Oops.

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So Iโ€™ll share it today instead. The one I want to share today is from the late Cardinal George. https://catholicoutlook.org/how-liberalism-fails-the-church-the-cardinal-explains/

Essentially, Cardinal Georgeโ€™s point is: โ€œWe shouldnโ€™t be calling ourselves liberal or conservative Catholics, we just need to be Catholic, period.โ€

Like Mark Shea’s offering, this is lengthy but very worthwhile. Itโ€™s interesting to me that in this, Cardinal George is not talking about political liberalism, but theological liberalism. Thereโ€™s nothing in it that critiques left-leaning Catholicsโ€™ positions on immigration, efforts to alleviate inequality or poverty, the need for universal health care, etc. Thereโ€™s a good reason for that: those left-leaning positions are word-for-word from Catholic teaching.

All in all, I found this a really, really good call to examine what it means to be a Catholic in the modern world.

Now and Not Yet

As I continue praying “Advent With Oscar Romero,” I find that so much of what he says resonates. In recent months, I’ve encountered a perspective that baffles me–one that argues we shouldn’t work for justice in the here and now, because the only thing that matters is Heaven. St. Oscar Romero’s words speak to this beautifully. He says, “In preaching the gospel I do not speak about a non-incarnated gospel, but one that is incarnated and that enlightens the realities of our time.”

And then, farther down, he summarizes the “virtues that the Word of God highlights: first, poverty and hunger for God; second, vigilance and faith; third, Christian presence and action in the world.”

What I read in this is a reminder that God came among us in bodily form for a reason–to demonstrate that what happens in the physical world matters to God. (Poverty, racism, injustices of all kinds.) And therefore, it should matter to us, too.

Christian Brotherhood and Immigration

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Returning to Fratelli Tutti today. This comes from a section subtitled โ€œAn Absence of Human Dignity on the Borders,โ€ calls out conflicts around immigration as a violation of Christian brotherhood. “They,” in this case, refers to migrants.

This quote struck me with particular force because it encapsulates what I’ve been struggling with in arguments over race and immigration. In the abstract, we all agree that racism is bad and immigrants have human dignity, but whenever discussions of particulars arise, an almighty outcry rises in protest, saying such and such a thing is not racist, that of course they have human dignity BUT (fill in the blank). Here, Pope Francis calls that out.

One thing I found particularly interesting: the assertion that communities whose people flee are losing โ€œtheir most vigorous and enterprising elementsโ€ (#38). Iโ€™d never thought about that. His point is that in addition to the right to immigrate, thereโ€™s also the right to be able to stay where you are. People flee when that right is violated. So in addition to justice for immigrants seeking new homes, responsibility also rests on those who create the dire situations that force people to flee.

As tempting as it is to read this section in light of U.S. immigration battles, we have to remember we aren’t the only ones dealing with conflicts over migration. #40 actually names Europe as particularly at risk of prioritizing its own citizens so high, it sets aside the rights of migrants.

This section ends with a heartfelt acknowledgment of the fears that cause peopleโ€™s reaction to immigration, and begs us to face those fears and move beyond them, because they cause us to act in ways that are โ€œintolerant, closed and perhaps even–without realizing it–racist.โ€ The closing statement is just beautiful: โ€œFear deprives us of the desire and the ability to encounter the other.โ€

In Which I Begin To Understand Anger

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This week, a group one of my kids is involved in pretty much gave up on pandemic-mitigating strategies. Because now the weather is cold and itโ€™s, yโ€™know, hard, because you canโ€™t be outside anymore.

And for this reason, weโ€™re going to have to say no to at least one major event this child really wanted to attend.

I had a conversation with the leadership, asking if the group would consider voluntarily taking on masking. I explained the medical history that makes our caution necessary: a child with naturally floppy airways who nearly died of RSV as a newborn, had open heart surgery at 7 months, and was intubated again at age 2 for pneumonia.

I got about the response I expected. The burden is on us to just abstain.

I expected it, but it made me angry. In fact, my reaction bordered on rage.

I totally get being tired of COVID limits. Me too, people. Me too. But masking is such a small sacrifice to make for the good of others. We want America to be a Christian nation, but when the rubber meets the road, what does that mean?

Well, Jesus was clear that the most vulnerable among us are supposed to be our priority.

To say, โ€œHey, if you think youโ€™re at risk, just stay homeโ€ places the entire burden on those who already bear the heaviest burden–and to those who love them. (Like my kid.) It forces them into isolation that erodes their mental health, all so the strongest people donโ€™t have to be bothered with small sacrifices like wearing a mask that would reduce spread and make the world safer for more vulnerable people.

Where is Jesus in that world view?

But what was most significant last night was what I learned from that hard spark of outrage: helpless, choking, impotent rage. I felt powerless against an inexorable machine that was perpetrating an injustice that stands in direct opposition to Christian values–but which the perpetrators do not recognize as such.

And for the first time, I really โ€œgotโ€โ€”even if only the barest, palest shade of an echo–what it must feel like to be a person of color in the United States.

I understood why the Black community is angry. I understood at some speck of a level what it might feel like from the inside of a system that thinks itself righteous while imposing unjust burdens on entire communities. And which, when challenged, blames the victims.

The offense against me (really, my child) is ludicrously small. It barely registers on the scale. But it really clarified for me how a lifetime of micro-aggressions would cause exactly the kinds of reactions weโ€™ve seen across the country this year in response to police violence against unarmed black men. I canโ€™t even imagine living every day with the kind of righteous anger I was feeling last night. Let alone multiplying it exponentially.

I canโ€™t walk a mile in the shoes of a person of color, but last night, for the first time, I felt like I kind of understood.

If only…

This entire document is full of parental tough love!

I think we would all agree with the sentiments. The question is how we put them into practice. That’s where division lies. But to me, this document is a reminder that problems that affect us all–at a society level (whether that’s local, national, or global) can’t be left to individuals. We have to act as a society.